Thursday, November 20, 2008

Transitions...

The times is coming...4 weeks and counting until I finally graduate from college! It's only taken 5 years to complete a 4 year degree, but I think after changing majors I have done pretty good! When I think about it I realize that I have been in school, non-stop, for 18 years!!! There was kindergarten, then 5 years of college with no time off (besides the summer). So out of 24 years of life on this earth, 18 has been spent in the classroom! I have never really known anything else besides classes, teachers, homework, and tests. It is such a relief to finally end that stressful and straining routine and move on to something else. But, it also scares me!

I have never known anything but school. I have never known what it feels like to not know that you are going to class starting in August or January. I have never known what it feels like to be married without being a full-time student. School has always been a major part of my life and, in 4 weeks, it will become a thing of the past. This all may sound simplistic or trivial, but believe me it's scary!

Transitions are all in our lives. We move from childhood to adolescence, from adolescence to young adults, etc., etc. Within each of these periods are smaller transitions: changes in grades, changes in friends, change in jobs, promotions, family relationships, marriage, children. And then there are the smaller ones we take for granted: transitioning from training wheels to two wheels, learning to drive, actually getting your license. We are constantly facing transitions in our lives. We may not like some, we may welcome others. But we face them almost on a weekly basis!

There is another transition that we either take for granted or overlook all together: the transitions in our spiritual lives. We become Christians, and that is a big transition. But I will never forget one person who praised her child being baptized by stating, "I'm sure glad that's over!" Many of us treat our walk with Christ just like that. We make the transition into Christianity, but we sit down afterward and think that's it. But we seem to forget that Jesus tells a church that seems to be sitting down...

I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! So, because you are lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—I am about to spit you out of my mouth. (Revelation 3:15-16)

Here is the bad news, never transitioning in our spiritual lives makes us lukewarm, neither hot nor cold. You're not cold because you have accepted the gift of salvation and have made the decision to become a Christian. But you are not hot either because you have don nothing since. Paul chastizes the Corinthians because when he first came to them, he gave them milk from scripture for nourishment, but they have not transitioned from milk to meat, from the basics to digging deeper and drawing nearer to God. Ask yourself this: how many times a day do you pray? How much do you read your bible (we could all work on this)? How much have you really grown closer to God since becoming a Christian? If you can't honestly say that you are any different (internally) from the day you became a Christian, then you are in danger of being lukewarm. Now, you don't have to be on fire and converting every person you come into contact with (in my opinion) Sometimes we can't find the strenght or courage or even the time to try to talk to every single person we know! But what I check myself on is my spiritual life: do I feel any closer to God now than when I first came to Him? Do I know anything more about Him and His Will now than before? Do I even have a desire to know more or to grow closer? That's probably the most important question! Many "Christians" feel fine not going anywhere, staying right where they are, without a desire to grow more, and that I believe is indeed lukewarm.

So, maybe transitions are not bad. Some are great for our lives, others are intimidating. But we can't avoid them. And if we avoid transitions in our spiritual lives, then please reference the above scripture...

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Just Waiting...

I updated my status on facebook with this: "David is just waiting...". A friend of ours asked, "Waiting for what?" Waiting for what? Isn't that the million dollar question...


All we really have is waiting. There are things in our lives that we can do nothing about except wait, especially if we are relying on others. We are impatient people, that is for sure. We want what we want when we want it, so when we are required to wait it goes against our nature, our desires. Think about it: how do you respond when you are put on hold by companies on the phone? Do you wait 1 minute then hang up? Do you role your eyes when asked, "Can you please hold?" It's cause we're impatient! Being impatient isn't all that bad. It's when it starts effecting you emotionally or causing stress of anxiety. If you are waiting and it causes you to have bad day or start lashing out at others around you because you are not getting what you want right now, that is when it is bad to be impatient! I am writing this especially for me.

What am I waiting for? Let's see...
  • Thanksgiving
  • Christmas
  • Job Interview possibility
  • Graduation
  • The end of this day
  • The end of this week
  • Christ to come back
  • My daughter to reach more of those "cute" stages
  • Some of my family to come to know Christ personally
For most of these, I am being really impatient. I told my wife just this morning, "I'm not going to make it through this day." It's causing me to wake up in the mornings and dread the day because what I want is not coming fast enough! I want for school to be over! I want my degree now! I want this really loooong day to be over now! I want that man to call me back now! It's causing me to have frustrations which I vent on others (especially my wife, who loves me dearly that she deals with it and tries to encourage me!).

Just wait. Getting frustrated doesn't doesn't make what you want happen any earlier. Just because I want the weekend to be here doesn't mean it will get here any faster. Just because I am frustrated about someone not calling me back soon enough doesn't make them call me any sooner. Just wait. I know that it sucks to hear that, it sucks for me! I just told myself to wait and now I'm angry at myself! Just wait...just wait...just wait...and be patient...

Isaiah 40:31..."but those who wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not grow faint."

Friday, November 7, 2008

Hail to the Chief...

So, big news this week, huh? Looks like we have a new president with a new regime and all. And, he's an african american. I do believe that this is a big milestone in our country's history, but why did this election have to be about race? I mean, if he had lost it would be because he is black; he won and it's because he is black. Maybe he won because people thought he was the best person. If he would have lost maybe it would have been because people thought he was not the best person. People are saying that this is a huge step for America, and yet it's still all about race!

I am a little worried about this guy though. But not because I think he is the antichrist. Let me make it clear: I don't believe that Barack Obama is the antichrist. I am not even sure there is the antichrist. I've read all the Left Behind books (great reads!), but I am not convinced that is what is really going to happen. Look at it this way: people thought Hitler was the antichrist, people thought Hussein was the antichrist, and look what happened to these guys! Truth is, they were a form of an antichrist. Who knows, Obama may be another antichrist. No, I'm afraid of this guy because there are a lot of unknowns about him. I worry that many people voted for him simply because they wanted a change of power. They were tired of republicans, so let's put a democrat in office! Many didn't stop and look at the secrecy that shrouds this man. Is he Christian, is he Islam? What is his stance on certain ethical issues? There are a lot of unknowns, and the fact is it was REALLY easy for him to get to this point. He was only a junior congressman, only 47! How did he rise so fast??

Well, anyways, anyone who reads this I want to be comforted: this is not the end. What happened November 5th? You still went to work/school, you still ate, watched TV, slept, nothing different than November 3rd. This is not the end of the world or anything. The fact is we must remember where our true hope lies. I have read articles where people are likening him to Christ, calling him a savior. You could see the hope that lied in the eyes of those gathered at his party, and it looked as if it was a last resort for hope. Millions of people believe that this man is the only hope we have, but we know the truth! God is the only place that our hope lies! In Christ we should place our trust! You want real change? Christ provides the real change that we need, an internal change that will not only change the course of your entire life but the course of your eternity! God rules supreme! God is more powerful than any president will ever be, antichrist or not!

Please don't forget that we have a great promise for our Lord; that Christians have a home over on the other side. We are to live as foreigners in this land, to be the light in this foreign land, and to strive to bring people to Christ. Whoever the president is, does that an impact on what we are called to do? Don't get me wrong, it will be an interesting year next year when President Obama takes over. I wander  what will happen, but more importantly I wander when we as Christians will get off of our pedestal and start following Christ?